What is a situationship ? Dilon ka rishta kabhi naam nahi maangta, aur har rishte ko izzat dene ke liye ek label zaroori nahi hota. Lekin jab ek rishta na pyaar hota hai, na dosti – sirf ek khamosh silsila hota hai, tab usse situationship kaha jaata hai. Aaj ka blog isi adhoore rishte par likhi gayi shayari “Kismat Ki Khata” par based hai – jisme har lafz ek sapne ki tarah toot kar bikhra hai.
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1. Poem : “Kismat Ki Khata”
Woh tera pyaar ka gham tha, ya bas meri ek khata,
Dil ne chaha tujhe, par naseeb ne di sazaa।
Yeh lines ek dard bhari kahani ka aaghaz karti hain. Jisme mohabbat thi, jazbaat the, lekin rishta na takdeer mein tha, na taqdeer ne saath diya. Situationship mein bhi aisa hi hota hai – sab kuch hota hai, bas ek naam nahi hota.
Na tu bewafa tha, na meri wafa mein kami thi,
Phir kyun har khushi bhi, aakhri raat jaisi nami thi?
Yeh stanza perfectly capture karta hai emotional line ko – jahan na koi doshi hai, na koi gunaah. Bas kismat ki ek khata hai.
💔 2. What is a Situationship? Jab Rishte Mein Hoke Bhi Akele Ho
Situationship ka matlab hota hai ek aise rishte mein hona jahan dono log emotionally involved hote hain, par commitment ya clarity nahi hoti. Shayari ke iss tukde mein wahi emotional fuzziness dikh rahi hai:
Muskuraya bhi toh, aansuon se baat ban gayi,
Chhupaya dard dil mein, par har nazar shikayat ban gayi
Yeh dard sirf wahi samajh sakta hai jiska pyaar naamurad raha ho – jahan khushi bhi guilt ban jaye, aur aankhon mein har pal ek unsaid question ho.
3. Sapne Jo Taqdeer Ne Tod Diye – Jab Sapne Sirf Yaadon Mein Rehte Hain
Na milta tu toh bhi, koi gham toh likha hota,
Bas ro lena tha humein, yeh toh har pal ka silsila hota
Situationships mein sapne utne hi gehre hote hain jitne kisi committed pyaar mein, par woh sapne kabhi apna wajood nahi paate. Shayari ke zariye yeh sapno ki barbadi har dil mehsoos kar sakta hai.
Tere khwabon ka dariya, har pal behata raha
Tu duaon mein thi, tu har ek aas thi…
Yeh lines dikhati hain ki kisi ke khwabon mein rehna bhi ek saza ban sakta hai, jab kismat sirf judaai likh kar de.
4. Jab Jazbaat Chup Jaate Hain – Shayari Mein Chhupi Cheekh
Tere seene mein bhi toh dil hai, koi paththar toh nahi,
Phir kyun meri tadap, teri soch tak pohuchi nahi?
Situationship ka sabse bada dard hota hai, jab aapko jo aap chahte ho, wo nahi milta. Matlab, jo aap expect karte ho, jaise pyaar ya dhyaan, wo dusra insaan aapko nahi deta. Shayari is emotion ko itni khubsurti se bayan karti hai ki har padhne wale ko apna kuch bhula rishta yaad aa jaye.
Tune bhi shayad dard ko palakon mein chhupaya ho,
Jaise maine khud ko har pal, har aansu se dho dala ho
Ye stanza ek mirror feeling ka kaam karta hai – jaise dono ne ek dusre ko chaha ho, lekin kabhi khule alfaazon mein nahi kaha ho.
5. What is True Love vs Situationship? Ek Patli Si Lakeer
True love aur situationship ke beech sirf ek patli si lakeer hoti hai – commitment. Shayari ke iss tukde mein dono emotions ki jhalak milti hai:
Tujhse gila nahi, na koi shikayat rahi,
Par kismat se har roz, ek nai ladai si chali
Situationships mein bhi pyar hota hai, intezaar hota hai, lekin clarity nahi hoti. Aur isi confusion mein dil har roz ek nayi jung ladta hai.
🧠 6. Situationship Psychology – Jab Mind Aur Heart Confuse Ho Jayein
Psychologically, situationship ek mental rollercoaster hai. Research ke hisaab se, aise rishte logon mein:
- Emotional instability
- Anxiety
- Longing without resolution
- Self-worth issues
le aate hain. Aur ye sab dard shayari aur sapno mein bas jaata hai – jaise is poem mein har line ek therapy ban gayi ho.
🌙 7. Shayari – Jab Har Lafz Mein Dard Bolta Hai
Woh tera pyaar ka gham tha, ek bahaana ban gaya,
Jise maanga tha duaon mein, woh afsaana ban gaya।
Shayari sirf alfaaz nahi hoti, ek jazba hoti hai. Aur situationship jaisa confusing aur painful phase, shayari ki rooh ban jaata hai.
Na tu doshi tha, na main khudgarz tha,
Kismat ne likha tha bichhadna… aur hum majboor the.
Yeh stanza perfectly sum up karta hai ek adhoora pyaar – jisme na koi tohmat hoti hai, na koi safai – bas kismat ki khata hoti hai.
🔍 8. What is a Situationship? 5 Real-Life Signs
Agar aap bhi confuse ho ki kya aap kisi situationship mein ho, toh in 5 signs ko padhiye:
- No Label – Aap dono close ho, lekin koi official naam nahi hai.
- Emotional Attachment Without Future Talk – Feelings hai, lekin future ka koi discussion nahi hota.
- One-Sided Confusion – Aksar ek hi insaan clarity chaahta hai.
- Hot & Cold Behavior – Kabhi extreme closeness, kabhi complete distance.
- Sapne To Hain, Par Reality Nahi – Aap uske sapne sajate ho, lekin zameen pe kuch bhi confirm nahi hota.
10. Sapne, Shayari Aur Situationship – Jab Teenon Ek Hi Kahani Kehte Hain
Situationship ek aisi unsaid kahani hoti hai jahan sapne hote hain, lekin haqiqat nahi. Shayari un sapno ka aaina ban jaati hai. Meri poem “Kismat Ki Khata” har us dil ka dard bayan karti hai jo kabhi kisi ke sath hoke bhi akela tha.
🔚 Conclusion: Situationship – Ek Aadha Sa Ishq
What is a situationship? Ye sirf ek modern relationship trend nahi hai – ye ek emotional struggle hai jisme har roz apne aap se ladna padta hai.
Poem Recap:
Woh tera pyaar ka gham tha, ya bas meri ek khata,
Dil ne chaha tujhe, par naseeb ne di sazaa…
Aapka kya kehna hai?
Kya aapne kabhi kisi situationship ka hissa ban kar sapno ko roop lete aur bikharte dekha hai?
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